Couples 18+

Couples cards

For people who arrived together and think they know each other.

100 assignments

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Both answer at once: the big thing you two are meant to be deciding. Different answers, both lose a card.

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Show your partner on your own body where you want to be touched more.

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Your partner answers for you on your next three turns. You still place your own cards.

Written for a table where everybody came with somebody, or for two people on a sofa with one deck. Half of these are questions that are harder to answer than they look, and half are dares that only make sense with a partner in the room.

The best ones are the compare cards, where you both answer at the same time and then find out whether your answers match. That is where a couples game earns its place: not the dares, but the twenty seconds after two people say a different number out loud.

It works as a date night on its own, and it works with two or three other couples, which is where it gets competitive. Cards are won and lost on the answers, so there is a game underneath the questions rather than just a list of prompts.

How the couples cards work

01 Play with one couple or several. Some cards need four people, and the app never deals those to a table of two.
02 The phone hands out the question or dare when somebody scans.
03 Answer, then draw again. The card is not your turn.

All 100 couples assignments

Every question and dare, in the open. Vote for the ones worth keeping.

001 Name your partner's first crush. Wrong, lose a card.
002 Name the song that was playing the first time you kissed. Both answer at once.
003 Name your partner's worst habit. They decide if you were kind enough.
004 Both answer at once: the big thing you two are meant to be deciding. Different answers, both lose a card.
005 Name three things in your partner's bag right now. Check.
006 Name the thing your partner would say you do not do enough of. They confirm.
007 What is your partner most insecure about. Answer only if you dare.
008 Name the last thing you did that hurt them. They may not help you.
009 Both say the date of your first date out loud at the same time. Different answers, both strip.
010 Name your partner's most annoying friend. They confirm or deny.
011 What did your partner wear the first time you met. Any detail counts.
012 Name the thing your partner has told you about themselves that you did not believe.
013 Name the smallest lie your partner has told you and got away with. They get right of reply.
014 Both answer at once: whose family is worse. Same answer, take a card each.
015 Ten seconds. Name every place you two have lived, and which one nearly ended you.
016 What is the pettiest argument you two have ever had. Reenact it.
017 Name your partner's ex you would least like to meet.
018 Both say a number: how many times you have walked out of a room mid-argument.
019 What does your partner do that you have never mentioned but always noticed.
020 Tell the room the thing your partner does that you have never admitted you love.
021 Tell the room the thing your partner does that you have never admitted you hate.
022 Say the nicest true thing you have never said to your partner.
023 Tell your partner what you thought of them the first sixty seconds you met.
024 Describe your partner's body with your eyes shut. They correct you as you go.
025 Tell the room how you two actually met. The real version.
026 Say one thing you want more of. Say it plainly, no jokes.
027 Say one thing you want less of. Same rules.
028 Tell your partner the moment you knew.
029 Confess something you have never told them about the night you two met.
030 Tell the room the one thing your partner could do that you would not forgive.
031 Say what you were thinking, honestly, the last time they annoyed you.
032 Tell the room the worst gift they have ever given you. They may defend it.
033 Give your partner a compliment so specific it is uncomfortable.
034 Tell the room what your partner is like on a hangover. Do the voice.
035 Say the thing you always nearly say and never do.
036 Kiss your partner the way you did the first time. Then the way you do now.
037 Twenty seconds. Grind on your partner. If others are here, they count.
038 Sit on your partner's lap until your next turn. Face them.
039 Thirty seconds. Undress your partner by exactly one item, as slowly as you can.
040 Recreate, fully clothed, how the two of you last finished.
041 Your partner picks one item of your clothing. It comes off now.
042 Whisper what you want tonight. Only they hear it.
043 Ten second kiss. No hands.
044 Your partner may kiss you anywhere. You do not get a say in where.
045 Bite your partner somewhere that will not show tomorrow.
046 Slow dance to whatever is playing. No gap between you.
047 Hold eye contact with your partner for one minute. No talking, no laughing.
048 Lie with your head in your partner's lap until your next turn.
049 Two minutes alone in the next room. The timer runs out here.
050 Trace one finger along your partner for fifteen seconds. They say where.
051 Show your partner on your own body where you want to be touched more.
052 Your partner writes a dare. You do it, whatever it says.
053 Massage your partner wherever they ask for thirty seconds.
054 Take a shot from your partner's mouth.
055 Swap one item of clothing with your partner. Wear it for the rest of the game.
056 Answer separately: how many times a week. Numbers differ, both strip.
057 Answer separately: who finishes first, usually. Compare.
058 Answer separately: best place you have ever done it. Different answers, both drink.
059 Answer separately: the one thing the other has got better at since you met. Same answer, take two cards each.
060 Answer separately: who said I love you first, and how long the other took to say it back.
061 Answer separately: the one job in the house neither of you will do. Then live with the answer.
062 Answer separately: who needs the other more. The room decides who is right.
063 Answer separately: who is the better driver. The room votes on the truth.
064 Answer separately: the thing about the other you have quietly given up on changing. Match, take two cards.
065 Answer separately: the last time either of you cried.
066 Answer separately: how long you would last apart. Compare the numbers out loud.
067 Answer separately: what you two will have in a year that you do not have now. Defend it.
068 Answer separately: whose friends do you actually prefer.
069 Answer separately: the last thing you deleted before handing over your phone. Same answer, take two cards.
070 Answer separately: how many photos of them are on your phone. Closest to the truth wins two cards.
071 Answer separately: what the other is most frightened of about the next year.
072 Ten seconds. Name five things you two have not done yet and still want to.
073 Twenty seconds. Do your partner's impression of you.
074 Fifteen seconds. Describe your relationship as a film title. The room votes.
075 Thirty seconds. Argue your partner's side of your last argument, convincingly.
076 Ten seconds. Name every friend of your partner's you have quietly hoped they would drop.
077 Twenty seconds. Retell your first date in the style of a nature documentary.
078 Ten seconds. Say five things you want from the next year. Two of them about them.
079 Fifteen seconds. Recreate the face your partner makes when they are annoyed.
080 Twenty seconds. Sing your song. Both of you. Badly is fine.
081 Ten seconds. Say something in their love language. They judge it.
082 One minute. Plan your next holiday out loud. Disagree once and you each lose a card.
083 Thirty seconds. Name every couple you two have ever been jealous of. Say what they have.
084 Ten seconds. Guess what your partner is thinking right now. They confirm.
085 Fifteen seconds. Do your partner's laugh. They rate it.
086 Swap partners with another couple for two rounds. Nothing physical, just allegiance.
087 You two decide every placement together from now on. Your timelines stay your own.
088 Every card your partner loses, you lose one too. Until your next turn.
089 Spin the bottle. Whoever it points at asks you two anything.
090 Spin the bottle. That person picks a dare for your partner, and you must join in.
091 Take two cards from your partner. Explain yourself afterwards.
092 Give your partner your best card. Say something nice while you do it.
093 You may not speak to your partner until your next turn. Only to the room about them.
094 The room decides one rule the two of you must follow all night.
095 Your partner answers for you on your next three turns. You still place your own cards.
096 Whoever has fewer cards must do whatever the other says until their next turn.
097 Name the thing the room gets wrong about you two. Then you are on the same team: every card one of you takes, the other takes one too.
098 Only whoever's turn it is sees this. Do something small your partner will notice. If they call it, they take a card. If not, you take two.
099 Nothing happens. Just look at each other for ten seconds.
100 Guess your partner's screen time this week. Within an hour, they take off one item. Further out, you do.

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FAQ

Does this work for just two people?: Yes. Most of the hundred are written for a couple alone. The ones that need two couples are marked and never dealt to a table of two.
How is this different from the spicy category?: Couples cards assume a partner and lean on how well you know each other. Spicy cards assume a room and lean on nerve. They share no cards at all.
Is it a good anniversary or Valentine gift?: It is built for it. The pack is made from your own songs, so the deck is specific to the two of you before a single card is turned over.
Can we skip the physical ones?: Yes. Contact cards are tagged and can be switched off, leaving the questions.